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From making $500 in the first month I launched my From making $500 in the first month I launched my business to making $500 in a day in month 14, I’ve come a long way.  And to be honest in month 1, it felt IMPOSSIBLE to imagine a day when my business would be doing $500 days.  But here’s the thing - you don’t get ahead by doing one random thing every now and then. You get ahead by doing the same thing in new and improved ways over and over and over again, until the wheel starts to move in the direction you want.  So yesterday, when I woke up and realised I’d made more in my sleep than I did a WHOLE month of killing myself in the first month of my business, I was humbly reminded of the power of compounded effort and NOT GIVING UP.  So whatever it is you’re working towards-  Keep building, keep crashing and keep picking yourself back up and moving forward. And sure enough, one of these days the wave won’t wipe you out and you’ll come out surfing at the top 😉  Who’s with me on this? 💪  #fempreneur #bizowners #hustleandheart #goaldiggersociety #businessmoves #ceofmylife #hersuccess #ladypreneur #sheeo #goaldigger #goalgetter #freedombasedbusiness 
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So what’s the worst that could happen if you wen So what’s the worst that could happen if you went after your dream?  Uhh, I’d have to go and do a crappy job again.  So the worst case scenario is your current scenario and yet you’re afraid to even try to go after something else?  Don’t be the one who holds yourself back. Do it for the future version of you who goes after and gets everything she wants.
What if this could be the year you stopped playing What if this could be the year you stopped playing small?🤭  A lot can change when you realise that you’re the only thing holding yourself back.  When I decided to take my blog seriously, I grew it from zero to $3000/mo in a year WHILE doing it part-time.  And not only did I grow this blog, I then went ahead and applied the same strategies to growing my online education business in 2020.  But I’m not the only snowflake who’s been able to do it. In the last year, we’ve helped hundreds of aspiring entrepreneurs do the same with #PinterestMarketing  If you’re looking to take your brand, blog or business to the next level in 2021, then you’ll love the resources inside our membership - Pinfluencer Collective.  Enrollments close this Sunday, 23:59PM CET. LINK IN BIO.  Got a question? Let me know. 👇  —————————-
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If someone told me 5 years ago that I’d be spend If someone told me 5 years ago that I’d be spending my days talking to a camera and getting paid to do that, I would’ve laughed. 🤠  A year ago, I didn’t even know how to really shoot a video from a proper camera. I didn’t know how a tripod worked, what the heck ring lights were and I sure as heck didn’t know how to talk to a machine.  But here’s the thing, you can teach yourself ANYTHING. If you really want to, that is.  Spending thousands of $ every month on advertising my new business was not an option, so I told myself I’d do the next best thing, which was to create free video content and build my audience on Youtube.  Fast forward to today, it seems like the most natural thing in the world to do.  I’m still far from an expert, but as long as each new video is better than the one before, that works!  What’s something you never thought you could do but now are a natural at?👇
What I wish I knew when I first jumped full-time i What I wish I knew when I first jumped full-time into entrepreneurship...Swipe right 👉 for more. 
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📌4 years since I started my first hobby blog. 📌4 years since I started my first hobby blog.  📌 2.5 years since I started a second serious blog.  📌1 year since I started my online training business.  🙋🏻‍♀️400+ blog posts. 200+ videos. 500+ marketing emails. 8 digital products. Multiple failures. Multiple wins. Thousands of $ invested. 95% of all weekends worked. Gazillion no’s said. Countless breakdowns later...  I now make more than my last corporate job and my business revenue is growing 70% month over month. But it didn’t happen in a blink.  Here’s the thing - I’m not in any way special. I’m just committed to my vision and persistent AF.  In the last few years of following my gut, I’ve realised it doesn’t just take talent or hard work to achieve your dreams. It takes courage to do something no one else around you is doing, but more than that it takes PERSISTENCE. The ability to stay stubbornly on-track against failure, haters, distractions, excuses and limiting beliefs.  Because when you know deep deep down that you’re doing what you’re meant to be doing, you don’t take no for an answer.  You find the funds, you take up extra jobs, you wake up early to work on your side hustle, you stay in on weekends, you teach yourself new skills, you do whatever the heck it takes to get closer to your goal. You stop making excuses. Period.  Let this be your daily reminder to-
>> STOP GIVING UP ON YOURSELF SO DAMN EASILY.  Just keep pushing forward, even when the people, the accolades and the results don’t show up. You’ll be surprised at how far you can get when you simply promise yourself to just do 1% better every single day.  Thoughts? Let me know. 👇
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You can be the most hard working person in the room.  But if you don’t keep getting up and moving forward even (and especially after you fail), success will always seem far away.  So let this be your reminder, to keep pushing for your dreams. You owe it to yourself to get everything your soul desires.  Drop me an amen if you agree!👇
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career advice, Living Well, Wellness · 26/09/2020

9 Things Women Should Never Apologise For

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Women tend to have a habit of apologising for the most trivial of things. Several psychology studies and research also has found that women apologise more than men.

You will often hear a sorry from a woman more than you do from a man. I’m guilty of this too sometimes.

I catch myself apologising and explaining myself and then later wonder if I didn’t need to do so.

The exact reason for this is not known, you might blame social programming (society), upbringing, education system, or something else entirely for it.

But the fact is that women tend to apologise about a lot more things in life than men.

We, women, need to consciously stop being apologetic for anything and everything. This needs to stop now!

Girl Power- never apologise
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Here are 9 things women should never apologise for…

#1 Your Appearance

Things women should never apologise for
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Whether you are short, tall, thin, full-figured or whatever else your appearance may be, embrace it and be proud of it.

Women have been criticized for too long based on their appearances. 

Women are told that they have to be a particular height, weight or have certain measurements and have even been judged based on it, to date.

Apart from that, if someone sees a thin girl, they ask if she doesn’t eat enough. If they see a plump woman, they judge the amount she eats.

People are never happy with what they see, and that includes yourself. Don’t be too harsh on yourself or your body.

STOP IT! Don’t apologise for looking the way you do.

Be yourself and as long as you’re medically healthy, you are good to go. Keep reminding yourself that you are beautiful, you are amazing and nobody can or should judge you for what they see externally.

# 2 Your Feelings/Emotions

Emotions- things women should never apologise for
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It is okay to have feelings. It’s okay to be emotional.

What is not okay is judging someone based on having too many emotions or too less of it.

Who is anyone to decide how much you should cry if you are sad? Or laugh when you happy?

Women tend to blame their hormones, their periods, PMS, and so on when they cry “more than usual” or snap at someone unexpectedly.

When in reality, that’s what they feel. Also, don’t apologise if you happened to break down in a public place.

You are allowed to feel what you feel without having to explain it to others.

#3 Your Clothing Choices

Clothing- things women should never apologise for
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For times immemorial, women have had to apologise for their wardrobe choices.

It does not matter if someone thinks you are wearing something too tight for a night at the club, too revealing for a date or too dressy for brunch.

If you feel like wearing a particular outfit because you like it or just because you want to, go right ahead girl!

It’s a personal choice you make and at the end of the day if you are comfortable in what you are wearing then ignore all the judgement surrounding it.

Even if it is your friends judging you! (On a side note, should you really keep such people as your friends?)

#4 For Saying No

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Women feel guilty to say no. They tend to agree and say yes even if the resultant situation doesn’t favour them only so that they’ll be accepted in society.

Don’t do so. Don’t apologise for saying no. You have a choice and a right to say no.

Whether it is an invitation to attend a birthday party or consent to get physical, you have the right to say no and not be sorry about it.

If the other person thinks you are “flaking” or that you are being “too picky” or that you are being “a b*&$h” then so be it.

You don’t have to go somewhere or do something just to please others.

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#5 Your Food Choices

Things women should never apologise for- Food choices
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Whether you are a vegetarian, non-vegetarian, pescatarian, vegan or any other term that you like to call yourself, don’t apologise for it. Your diet is your choice.

Whether you choose to eat healthily or eat junk is your business, not your friend’s or your relative’s. If you’d rather order for a burger when everyone else is ordering a salad, go right ahead and do not apologise for it.

You don’t owe anyone an explanation for eating what you want.

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Your food is your choice because ultimately if you don’t like what you eat, you’ll eat less and feel hungry later and that helps no one.

In fact, it’ll harm you and your body in the long run.

# 6 Your Career Choices

Career choices- things women should never apologise for
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Many a time, women are told they are not fit to be in a particular profession.

Historically, it is found that there are very few girls who opt for a mechanical engineering course while studying so parents and people tend to deter girls who want to pursue that branch of engineering.

But that does not mean if you, as a girl, wants to join it that you should not. It might not be a traditional choice but it is YOUR choice.

Likewise, people might opine that being a bartender or a carpenter does not suit a woman or that it is not a woman’s profession.

That is their opinion and they can keep it. If you love what you study/what you do, then go for it.

Do not listen to other people’s opinions about your career choices.

#7 For Thinking About Yourself/For Yourself

Things women should never apologise for
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How many times have we been told, “If you want something, ask for it”? It seems like a simple statement but women are still apprehensive about doing this simple thing.

They try to meander their way around the topic or sugar coat it.

This action is based on the assumption that they might be perceived as being “too demanding”.

If a man thinks about his well-being it is considered normal. But if a woman does so, she is called selfish or self-centred.

Why should this be the case? Women are allowed to think about themselves and their well-being.

They have the right to ask for something if they want it just like men do.

Never apologise for going after what you want and thinking about yourself. Yes, being too selfish is not good at all but thinking about your well-being and needs is not a crime either.

Like, ordering a dish because your man likes it while you don’t enjoy it much might be fine once in a while but not all the time or letting him get an extra share because you think he wants it when you’ve been famished for hours is not right either.

Pamper yourself-

# 8 Your Opinions

things women should never apologise for- Opinion
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Most of us live in countries where no one forbids us to have and express our opinion.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, even women. People may not like your opinion but that is their problem, not yours.

You may not like a book or a movie that has got a good rating and is liked by all your friends and that is your personal choice. Do not be sorry about it.

Do not feel guilty because you like something that is not a popular choice over something that is.

For example, you do not have to apologise for saying you do not like a popular fellow parent in your child’s school. For all you know, that parent might be nasty to everyone but everyone is just scared to call it out.

The only time you should apologise for expressing your opinion or thoughts is if you’ve said it rudely.

Check out the post on – 5 Daily Affirmations to Create a Positive Shift in your life

#9 For Your Achievements

Things women should never apologise for- Achievements
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For years, men held the position of power, be it a CEO, an executive or a boss.

Even in movies or TV shows, men were shown in high standing positions while women were always portrayed in supporting roles. Women were passed off for a promotion or were judged if they achieved too much.

This should not be the case!

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Sometimes women were only given respect if they married to someone respectable or accomplished. They were judged on if they had a certain number of babies.

But nobody asked them if that’s what they wanted or if they were happy? Shouldn’t those be more important questions that should be asked? Whether you have achieved a lot in life or not much, you should not have to apologise for it.

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From making $500 in the first month I launched my From making $500 in the first month I launched my business to making $500 in a day in month 14, I’ve come a long way.  And to be honest in month 1, it felt IMPOSSIBLE to imagine a day when my business would be doing $500 days.  But here’s the thing - you don’t get ahead by doing one random thing every now and then. You get ahead by doing the same thing in new and improved ways over and over and over again, until the wheel starts to move in the direction you want.  So yesterday, when I woke up and realised I’d made more in my sleep than I did a WHOLE month of killing myself in the first month of my business, I was humbly reminded of the power of compounded effort and NOT GIVING UP.  So whatever it is you’re working towards-  Keep building, keep crashing and keep picking yourself back up and moving forward. And sure enough, one of these days the wave won’t wipe you out and you’ll come out surfing at the top 😉  Who’s with me on this? 💪  #fempreneur #bizowners #hustleandheart #goaldiggersociety #businessmoves #ceofmylife #hersuccess #ladypreneur #sheeo #goaldigger #goalgetter #freedombasedbusiness 
#soulpreneurs #spiritualentrepreneur #onlinebusinessowner #laptopliving #femalebusinessowner
So what’s the worst that could happen if you wen So what’s the worst that could happen if you went after your dream?  Uhh, I’d have to go and do a crappy job again.  So the worst case scenario is your current scenario and yet you’re afraid to even try to go after something else?  Don’t be the one who holds yourself back. Do it for the future version of you who goes after and gets everything she wants.
What if this could be the year you stopped playing What if this could be the year you stopped playing small?🤭  A lot can change when you realise that you’re the only thing holding yourself back.  When I decided to take my blog seriously, I grew it from zero to $3000/mo in a year WHILE doing it part-time.  And not only did I grow this blog, I then went ahead and applied the same strategies to growing my online education business in 2020.  But I’m not the only snowflake who’s been able to do it. In the last year, we’ve helped hundreds of aspiring entrepreneurs do the same with #PinterestMarketing  If you’re looking to take your brand, blog or business to the next level in 2021, then you’ll love the resources inside our membership - Pinfluencer Collective.  Enrollments close this Sunday, 23:59PM CET. LINK IN BIO.  Got a question? Let me know. 👇  —————————-
#pinterestsuccess
#pinteresttips
#smallbusinesstips
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#femalebusinessowner #dreamersandoers #femalehustler #femalepreneur #sheboss #femaleentrepreneur #fempreneur #girlbossparty #girlbosses #beingboss
If someone told me 5 years ago that I’d be spend If someone told me 5 years ago that I’d be spending my days talking to a camera and getting paid to do that, I would’ve laughed. 🤠  A year ago, I didn’t even know how to really shoot a video from a proper camera. I didn’t know how a tripod worked, what the heck ring lights were and I sure as heck didn’t know how to talk to a machine.  But here’s the thing, you can teach yourself ANYTHING. If you really want to, that is.  Spending thousands of $ every month on advertising my new business was not an option, so I told myself I’d do the next best thing, which was to create free video content and build my audience on Youtube.  Fast forward to today, it seems like the most natural thing in the world to do.  I’m still far from an expert, but as long as each new video is better than the one before, that works!  What’s something you never thought you could do but now are a natural at?👇
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